If you are a married person don’t think about the divorce. If you are thinking to divorce from your life partner you will get ready for face these type of problems.
You are applied divorce in court, it is benefit only for advocates not to you and your family.
Though there isn’t any statistics, divorce lawyers and marriage experts believe that separation without divorce is proving to be a popular alternative. “ Staying estranged seems to be a popular trend among couples. They enjoy the status quo especially if there are children involved. Going to court involves a lot of trouble. Men are afraid they will have to pay huge maintenance,”.
The hope of giving a failed marriage another chance to survive also plays a crucial role in couples opting for a separation instead of a divorce.
Legal hassles are also a big trouble.
Couples who have been estranged for over 10 years usually move on with their lives,” In a society where being a single woman still raises eyebrows, divorcees face social ridicule. “Women want to avoid the stigma. For children, it’s good to have the father around, especially at the time of their marriage. More than men, its women who don’t want to go to court for a divorce”.
With a quick hearing not possible in divorce cases, couples often have to do the rounds of the courts several times before the final settlement is drawn. At times, cases drag on for four to five years, draining people emotionally and financially. “For women, the delay in proceedings acts as a deterrent. In the case of middle- aged people, they go for divorce only if they remarry”.
It was the need of more individual space that forced them to separate. “We know that we will be there for each other in the case of an emergency. Moreover, we don’t have any plans get marry again. Our finances are in both our names and we still operate a joint account. I don’t see the need to go through a pile of paperwork to change our marital status in our passports, address details and nominations in our investments”. The emotional comfort zone which bars them from going through the ugly divorce battles.
Such the arrangement works only if both benefit from it. “In such cases, children will remain common and there is no bitterness. The main reason is social embarrassment.
If the wife goes to court, the husband may end up losing a major chunk of their property. The price tag for a divorce is too high in terms of monetary loss for men and social stigma for women. I wouldn’t say that staying separate is the trend, but it’s certainly more talked about now than before”.
However, “If couples are separated, it’s often better to get it over legally — it’s not healthy to stay separate just for convenience.” But then, neither is it very easy to make a clean break of certain relationships.
I asked one divorced person he replied me divorce means poison it is dangerous to drinker health and the dependents also it means divorce will be effect the both wife and husband. Divorce means you are writing end of yours life story or living last day of your life. I think if there is problem in your married life, both husband and wife discuss where you and your partner mistake (mistake means don’t find every time mistake’s only find solutions for that mistakes), or if both are going wrong way, find the correct solutions for that problems. Give minimum 2 to 4 hours to your life partner or family members. And don’t ignore or neglect your life partner because both are equal. 100% believe in your life partner. This is the only one way for avoid the divorce.
BEFORE APPLING THE DIVORCE, TRY TO UNDERSTAND YOUR PARTNER.
You are applied divorce in court, it is benefit only for advocates not to you and your family.
Though there isn’t any statistics, divorce lawyers and marriage experts believe that separation without divorce is proving to be a popular alternative. “ Staying estranged seems to be a popular trend among couples. They enjoy the status quo especially if there are children involved. Going to court involves a lot of trouble. Men are afraid they will have to pay huge maintenance,”.
The hope of giving a failed marriage another chance to survive also plays a crucial role in couples opting for a separation instead of a divorce.
Legal hassles are also a big trouble.
Couples who have been estranged for over 10 years usually move on with their lives,” In a society where being a single woman still raises eyebrows, divorcees face social ridicule. “Women want to avoid the stigma. For children, it’s good to have the father around, especially at the time of their marriage. More than men, its women who don’t want to go to court for a divorce”.
With a quick hearing not possible in divorce cases, couples often have to do the rounds of the courts several times before the final settlement is drawn. At times, cases drag on for four to five years, draining people emotionally and financially. “For women, the delay in proceedings acts as a deterrent. In the case of middle- aged people, they go for divorce only if they remarry”.
It was the need of more individual space that forced them to separate. “We know that we will be there for each other in the case of an emergency. Moreover, we don’t have any plans get marry again. Our finances are in both our names and we still operate a joint account. I don’t see the need to go through a pile of paperwork to change our marital status in our passports, address details and nominations in our investments”. The emotional comfort zone which bars them from going through the ugly divorce battles.
Such the arrangement works only if both benefit from it. “In such cases, children will remain common and there is no bitterness. The main reason is social embarrassment.
If the wife goes to court, the husband may end up losing a major chunk of their property. The price tag for a divorce is too high in terms of monetary loss for men and social stigma for women. I wouldn’t say that staying separate is the trend, but it’s certainly more talked about now than before”.
However, “If couples are separated, it’s often better to get it over legally — it’s not healthy to stay separate just for convenience.” But then, neither is it very easy to make a clean break of certain relationships.
I asked one divorced person he replied me divorce means poison it is dangerous to drinker health and the dependents also it means divorce will be effect the both wife and husband. Divorce means you are writing end of yours life story or living last day of your life. I think if there is problem in your married life, both husband and wife discuss where you and your partner mistake (mistake means don’t find every time mistake’s only find solutions for that mistakes), or if both are going wrong way, find the correct solutions for that problems. Give minimum 2 to 4 hours to your life partner or family members. And don’t ignore or neglect your life partner because both are equal. 100% believe in your life partner. This is the only one way for avoid the divorce.
BEFORE APPLING THE DIVORCE, TRY TO UNDERSTAND YOUR PARTNER.
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